08/20/2022, La Mesa
No matter how satisfying sxx is, or how good we are at it, there are recurring periods when we feel a bit stuck, or plateaued, or mundane. This is natural. All living beings are programmed by their DNA to be attracted to novelty. So, when we are in a state of lowered sxxual novelty, there is something we can do. We can Switch!
People, on average, have a preference towards being dominant, or submissive. In other words, we usually slide comfortably into one, or the other. It takes a bit of extra effort, or is nearly impossible to, play the other role. The other role might feel scary, awkward, unnatural, or simply uncomfortable. And, we may not really know why. The why will be an important part of this class! We will create a safe space to explore what comes up, when we contemplate being the initiator, giver, and dominator, instead of a receiver, and vice versa.
And then, once we have embraced the idea, how do we make it happen? How would we really want to play it out? And how would we make that request of a partner. Lucky you! Ace switch extraordinaire’s, Monique Darling, Major Tom and Peter, will be on hand to lead us in exercises that will give us a chance to practice those negotiations.
For this class, the role of Top and Bottom, Dom and Sub, or Giver and Receiver, is not gender specific.
How do you dive into both roles at once? Penetrator and penetratee? Giver and receiver? Active and receptive? Come to this experiential workshop to find out! Come and get a taste of some new ways to make your sxx play novel.
Find the joy and rush of trying on power dynamics, everything is offered in a playful, shame free environment, you can’t “do it wrong”
Come explore the world of switching with us.
Love Exchange : $69/ $119 pair
Please RSVP HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/top-or-bottom-tonight-getting-comfortable-with-switching-tickets-382733043837
About your Facilitators:
Major is an intimacy coach/facilitator at Consciousplay.net, co-founder of Temple Of Hedonism, and Co-Producer of VirtualIntimacyRetreat.com.
Trained as an authentic relating facilitator, he utilizes Integral Theory to create exercises in different practices acting, movement, and intimacy. My innovation and penchant for levity creates a brave experiential container for people to blossom open, and deepen the relationship to self and others. Authentic Relating Games allow you to intimately know yourself and create a space for decentralized processing.
His intention is to show up authentically to create safety and permission for others to show up fully. My containers are for deep intimacy and growth. I believe when we locate and push against our edges, that is where the growth can happen.
Monique Darling, workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 800 workshops in the past 5 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties. Learn more about Monique by going to juicyenlightenment.com or track her whereabouts at whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com
Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 18 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 16 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.